Gifting is part of tradition and societal norms that reflect culture and values. For many people, however, presents can be a hassle and even nerve-wracking. At my university’s picnic, after the cultural ceremony, gifting was a mandatory component where we gave tokens of appreciation to our teachers and top participants. Another occasion was a series of weddings we attended last year, where we bought presents as a group. These two events sparked some disagreements among us, as I was trying to add a unique touch, while others simply wanted to finish the task. I realized that many people view gifts as obligations or just formalities. In this era, genuine gifting is becoming increasingly rare.
Yet, there’s a positive side to giving. The joy and gratitude in someone’s expression when receiving a gift gives us a feeling of fulfillment. I felt this each time I wrote a letter to my friend and saw her face light up as she opened the envelope with delight.
Giving a gift is an art—the art of expressing affection, love, and care beyond words. Gifts can work like magic; they can bring a smile, show someone they’re special, persuade, add value to someone’s life, and even mend rifts.
As a student, I try to find budget-friendly ideas, but I always aim to add value—whether by wrapping them beautifully, including a handwritten note, or adding small sketches. I want each gift to reflect my effort, even if it’s not luxurious.
Give out of love, not obligation.
Give when it’s least expected.
Give to show that you care.
Give from your heart.
~The Gift of Giving
To give the perfect gift, consider these questions: What are their passions? What do they need? What will make them feel special?
It’s also true that, in some cases, giving becomes a formality rather than a genuine act of care. In professional settings, we often give out of duty. We may not always have answers to the recipient’s preferences, passions, or personal tastes. In such cases, both the giver and receiver hold some responsibility. Why give something if it doesn’t leave a lasting impact on the receiver’s mind? It’s often said that every gift acts as a talisman—a symbol of thoughtfulness and a bridge between two souls, connecting them in a meaningful bond.
I don’t claim to be an expert in this art. But I take pride in the thought and effort I put into the process. There are, of course, dos and don’ts, though they vary depending on perspective. In today’s materialistic world, the effort to think about others and make a meaningful gesture matters now more than ever. You don’t need a course to learn how to give. Simple, thoughtful steps can transform gifting into a beautiful process—an art.
