“In real life, shouldn’t a wedding be an awesome party you throw with your great pal, in the presence of a bunch of your other friends? A great day, for sure, but not the beginning and certainly not the end of your friendship with a person you can’t wait to talk about gardening with for the next forty years.”
– Mindy Kaling, Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?
To attend the party of two pals, be sure to bring some exquisite gifts. But how do you choose such a gift in the first place? What if they are already living together? What if they are a couple who has everything? Wedding gifts are already so common—what can be unique? How do you make sure your gift doesn’t end up as part of a pile of unused items? And what do you give if you don’t know them well enough?
Numerous questions like these come to mind.
Cash
I know it sounds odd, but rather than gifting repeated home appliances that the couple won’t even use, cash is a better choice. My brain always gravitates toward personalized items—maybe because of my age? But when a friend’s sister’s wedding took place last October, I was confused, so I directly asked him what would be the best gift for his sister. He said cash. The logic was the same as I mentioned. In some cultures, cash is a traditional wedding gift.
Experiences
After the wedding, the couple would love spending time together, whether it’s a tour or any fun activity to make their honeymoon phase memorable. You can help make this happen. While this is more of a personal gift, I recommend doing this for close friends and family members whom you know well.
If the couple loves traveling, give them a gift box with items for their favorite destination—such as food tours, sightseeing spots, and nature trips.
- A spa card for a relaxing couple’s day.
- Tickets to comedy shows or a cooking session.
- Gift vouchers like Airbnb credits, getaways, scuba diving lessons, sunset cruises, or resort stays.
You could also plan a cozy dinner or picnic. It’s better to ask about their preferences beforehand, as they might have a packed schedule or different tastes.
Wall Clock (Customized)
While in many countries a clock or watch as a gift is considered a sign of bad luck due to associations with mortality, some people accept it wholeheartedly. A wall clock with their wedding date engraved on it is a memorable gift that could become a cherished heirloom over time.
Decanter Set
Available in different shapes and sizes, a decanter set is a stylish wedding gift. Globe-shaped decanters are popular among adventurous couples, and there are many unique designs available. Even if the gift is repeated, it won’t go to waste, as it adds charm to their collection.
Glassware Set
A common and popular wedding gift in my family. Home appliances are among the most frequently given wedding gifts. In countries like India and Bangladesh, it’s traditional to give furniture and appliances as part of family customs. A stylish glassware set can elevate the look of the couple’s new home.
Wine and Whiskey Set
Couples who enjoy wine tasting will love this gift.
3D Photo Lamp
For your favorite couples, you can gift something that cherishes their relationship. Items like photo lamps and photo frames make great wedding gifts.
Personalized Items for Couples
Who wouldn’t like matching cup sets, mug sets, or hoodies to wear with their partner? For friends, try to give something personalized, leaving your unique touch to make their newlywed life more colorful.
Instant Camera
For capturing moments instantly, an instant camera is the best. Whether traveling or attending outings, it provides instant photo prints, making it perfect for couples.
Hand Casting Kit
Though I’ve never had one personally, hand casting is a trending idea among couple vloggers. It’s quite interesting! Whether they are newlyweds or long-time partners, a hand casting kit is always a good choice. It allows them to create special memories. Hand casting kits usually include buckets for casting, molding alginate, casting powder, sandpaper, sculpting tools, spoons, and mounting plaques.
Travel Kit
Everyone needs a travel kit! Whether the couple travels frequently or rarely, a travel kit can add comfort to their journeys.
Cookbook
Give the couple a good cookbook to cook together. It’s a great addition to their quality time.
Couples’ Game Set
I love board games and puzzles. Couples with similar tastes will be thrilled to receive this in their gift registry. They can play these games as quality time together. This is a fun and unique idea!
